Learning from Death

I lost a friend today! It came as a shock (as it often does), a poignant reminder of the transiency of life. 
I learn to appreciate life and her awkward antithesis which never forgets! I learn the urgency of life - to remember to always be the best i can especially to others. I learn to imbibe gratitude for what really matters; the presence of meaningful friendships and family. 
I'm reminded of the simple things i sometimes overlook. A chance to say thank you, i'm sorry and even just to gift a smile- Things that give our social communion meaning and that leaves us feeling worthy.
A dying man once said; “let the children paint on walls….”. indeed he meant it literally (ill add, even figuratively). He realizes that life is about memorable experiences that matter. He tries to say…. its just a ‘wall’! its not sooo important, let them have fun! He tries to say that perhaps we take meaningless things too serious, things of needless qualm or worry.
I will miss this man, and i will try to learn more about the meaning of life because of him. Because Life matters as does death. As he transits to another form let us remember….- in Latin said, ‘omnibus moriendum’, we all must die…. But we live forever ‘only’ in others.